· The wonderful things they do to her
Ibidun Ajayi-Ighodalo is well loved, unlike most women with her condition. The wife of the founder of Trinity House, Pastor Itua Ighodalo, enjoys better fate than most childless women of her ilk. Her in-laws are not breathing down her neck neither do they harass her for her inability to get pregnant.
Thus while most other childless women are despised like the dehydrated sea of infertility and scorned like the post-menopausal part of the earth, Ibidun’s husband and her in-laws accord her utmost loyalty and love.
Thus even though she is yet to be gifted with the fruit of the womb, she is under no pressure to get pregnant and her husband is under no pressure to take a second wife.
It is for this reason that Ibidun celebrates her in-laws. She appreciates their support and love towards her knowing that several other women in her shoes are going through hell in the hands of their husbands and in-laws. They make life unbearable for the woman, not putting into consideration her personal struggle and suffering.
“The depth of their kindness is like none other. A rare kind of love called unconditional. Despite my challenges with infertility, I have never been discriminated against. If I had to do it again, I would choose this family in every life because they are simply awesome.
I celebrate the best In-laws ever…the Ighodalos.”
It would be recalled that Ibidun and her husband whose marriage recently clocked eight years, fell victim to the machinations of a domestic staff who duped them of N10m. He did not stop at that; the criminal allegedly sought to terminate the life of Pastor Ighodalo and have sexual relationship with Ibidun. But fortunately for the couple, his plans failed.